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All or Nothing: Matthew 19:16-26



"Teacher, what good things must I do to have eternal life?" . . . Jesus replied. . . "you can receive eternal life if you keep the commandments." "Which ones?" the man asked. And Jesus replied: " 'Do not murder. Do not commit adultery. Do not steal. Do not testify falsely. Honor your father and mother. Love your neighbor as yourself.' " "I've obeyed all these commandments," the young man replied. "What else must I do?" Jesus told him, "If you want to be perfect, go and sell all you have and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me." But when the young man heard this, he went sadly away because he had many possessions. Then Jesus said to his disciples, "I tell you the truth, it is very hard for a rich person to get into the Kingdom of Heaven. I say it again—it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the Kingdom of God!" The disciples were astounded. "Then who in the world can be saved?" they asked. Jesus looked at them intently and said, "Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But with God everything is possible."
   — New Living Translation

What do you think?

  1. Who do you know that has misplaced priorities? Explain.
  2. How does your life demonstrate that your priorities are important?
  3. Are you committed, all or nothing, to your number one priority? If so, prove it.

What does God think?

Based upon the rich man’s question (v. 16), who/what was he depending on for eternal life?

It is important to note what Jesus didn’t say to the young man: "Believe in me." "Receive me into your heart." Why? Was there some basic misunderstanding he had about himself or God?

Was Jesus satisfied with the young man’s obedient and sincere life (v. 21)? Why or why not?

Why did the young man go away sad when Jesus told him to give up everything he had and follow Jesus (v. 22).

In the six commandments Jesus laid out to him (vv. 18-19), which one was he unable to keep? This young man was rich in life but poor in L __ __ __.

What does James 2:10-11 say about partial obedience?

In this young man’s heart, what was competing with eternal life?

This man was faced with an all or nothing decision. What was it?

The comfort and security of his earthly wealth would ultimately keep him from securing his heavenly __ __ __ __ __ __.

Was being rich really the problem (see 1 Tim. 6:10)?

Why is it impossible to have eternal life without God’s help (vv. 23-26)?

Now that you know these things . . .

  • Is it fair of Jesus to ask for all or nothing? Why can’t we have what we want and eternal life?
  • Does your life indicate an all or nothing committed to Jesus?
  • Read Matt. 6:24; 19:29; Lk. 9:23-26. A whole-hearted commitment to Jesus means you are determined not to set your desires or will against his. Can you honestly say that you’ve made this kind of commitment, or are you deceiving yourself with a partial commitment like the rich, young man?
  • Spend time this week alone with God asking him to show you if there’s anything between you and him. If you find there is something between you and Jesus, then be honest and bold and talk with your small group leader about it.
  • Jesus understood this man’s heart. He knew exactly what it was that kept him from a whole-hearted commitment. When presenting the gospel, try and understand where an unbeliever is having difficulty making an all or nothing commitment and focus on that in your conversation, just like Jesus did.


 


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